Thursday, April 29, 2010 The Lay Guide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than ...

This book is full of some very good advice. The ideas of eliciting values, neg hits, social proof, and (most especially) not paying for a womans attention are very powerful and real. They do help you build a connection and gain status, they are also applicable in situations outside of dating if you know how to handle yourself. It is for this reason that the book receives four stars.This book also has an element that makes it very controversial for some. It was written by a guy who hopes to help other guys get laid, period. The authors goal is to teach you how to get into a womans pants. That does NOT have to be YOUR goal in order for you to benefit from it. Those who say that the book is chauvanist are right, and those who say it teaches men to pick up on women in all the wrong ways are focusing on some of the more controversial, and in my opinion crazy, theories presented (such as "GM style" ignore it). One reviewer mentioned, and with some disgust, that the book advocates a man not buying a drink for a woman unless she "pays" for it with a kiss on the spot, among others. Again, this goes back to social proof, status, and whether or not youre paying for peoples time. It also goes back to self-respect, you just met a woman and youre buying her a drink? You better owe her. One does not have to demand sex from women, or be as chauvanistic as this author, in order to benefit from the technology involved. Trust me, I know. I was an AFC, I then went on to dating six girls at once and found it to be an emotional, psychological, and physical drain not worth the time the emptiness gave me. I did, however, use the techniques in this book to land the love of my life and have since been in a relationship for 1.5years. This book is social dynamics 110: how to handle a dating scenario from the mans perspective. Great book, shady perspective, buy it anyway and apply the techniques in the manner that is most congruent with your personality and demeanor.

The Beautiful Captive Woman

We know from Judges 21: 14 that occasionally there were shortages of women. In that situation, to allow captive women into Israelite families in order to procreate would be an expedient measure. Josephus in his discussion of the captive woman (Antiquities IV: 258 [5]) mentions that when a man takes a woman in order to have children by her, he should be considerate of her wishes. The fact that he mentions this directly in relation to the captive woman is significant.
It can be construed that we see a tension biblically between the fear of theological pollution and the occasional need to replenish the breeding stock, whatever the reason. This might explain the inclusion of the law allowing captive wives. It would seem that the effect of Deuteronomy 20: 16,17 was to ensure political and theological continuation, while the effect of Deuteronomy 21: 10ff was to help biological continuation by enlarging and diversifying the genetic pool from a non-threatening source.

The Beautiful Woman Syndrome

Lack of personal and intellectual development. In spite of their lackluster personalities and tendency toward insipid speech, men still speak with BWS women because, well, men are men. I once dated a woman who had a terminal case of BWS, and she bored me to tears. Her repertoire of conversational topics was very limited, and I cannot recall even one interesting thing that she said. After I belatedly realized that she had nothing to offer except her looks, I resolved to never again date a BWS woman.
Tendency to treat less-attractive people as members of an inferior species.
Failure to appreciate the attributes of less-attractive people. Seemingly, BWSers (as I call them) think that the one supremely laudable attribute is physical appearance (or money in the case of a potential spouse), and the remaining attributes in other people are given short shrift.
Predisposition to overestimate their intelligence and other attributes. I suppose I shouldnt fault them for this, because scientific research has substantiated that just about everyone thinks that more attractive people are smarter, more capable, and so on. Men are generally very eager to compliment beautiful women in every possible way. Thus, gorgeous women arent lauded solely for their appearance. Theyre also told that they are interesting, smart, funny, wonderful, great, or amazing. After hearing such compliments countless times, they believe it. Another web site gives an example of how extreme their arrogance can be after they develop a big head from the perennial praise.
Being extremely picky. Their looks should "buy" them a comparably attractive partner (or a rich one, given that old quid pro quo), but BWSers often want a man who is also intelligent, charming, friendly, pleasant, tender, loving, kind, easygoing, affectionate, thoughtful, caring, supportive, considerate, compassionate, helpful, attentive, responsive, dynamic, gallant, cheerful, loyal, honest, passionate, spontaneous, responsible, generous, courageous, patient, adventurous, enterprising, personable, articulate, and on and on. Why do women with the beautiful woman syndrome think they deserve so much? Ill explain why shortly.
An unusual reaction to niceness. If youre nice to most people, they will like you more. If youre nice to BWSers, they wont think more of you — theyll think more of themselves. Your niceness will just reinforce their lofty self-image.
A tendency to believe that the Constitution of the United States guarantees them a wonderful life.
A propensity to not try as hard as other women. While there are exceptions, many beautiful women coast through life on their looks alone. Most people give a 100% effort because they are willing to work that hard to get what they want. BWSers get various things — jobs, money, stuff, smiles, compliments, dates, husbands, you name it — so easily that they know they dont have to try hard. Their unfounded sense of entitlement is fueled by a belief that they deserve the finer things in life.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Some women may adopt the term as a personal preference over the term Rubenesque, or full-figured, because they may not necessarily have large breasts or hips. Such terms, and others such as "queen-sized", "plus-sized", or "fat" may lead to feelings of marginalization or non-inclusion for some women. However, some strongly prefer the term fat over other words which they consider unnecessary euphemisms.
The term is also commonly used as a positive euphemism by people involved with the fat acceptance movement, who often reject the descriptor "obese".
Today, the abbreviation is often found in personal ads (and online dating services) denoting an identification with (or preference for) such women.
The term BBW is also used to denote events specifically targeted to such women, and persons interested in them, such as specific gathering nights in dance clubs, restaurants, fashion stores and shows, etc so that an environment of acceptance is achieved by having like-minded or like-bodied persons in attendance.

Why Beautiful Women Marry Less Attractive Men , LiveScience

Women seeking a lifelong mate might do well to choose the guy a notch below them in the looks category. New research reveals couples in which the wife is better looking than her husband are more positive and supportive than other match-ups.
The reason, researchers suspect, is that men place great value on beauty, whereas women are more interested in having a supportive husband.
Researchers admit that looks are subjective, but studies show there are some universal standards, including large eyes, "baby face" features, symmetric faces, so-called average faces, and specific waist-hip ratios in men versus women.
Past research has shown that individuals with comparable stunning looks are attracted to each other and once they hook up they report greater relationship satisfaction. These studies, however, are mainly based on new couples, showing that absolute beauty is important in the earliest stages of couple-hood, said lead researcher James McNulty of the University of Tennessee. But the role of physical attractiveness in well-established partnerships, such as marriage, is somewhat of a mystery.

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